I sooooo agree with everything butterfly has said - everything. How on earth will a man stay with someone he is married to and who has a child for him and who supports him,makes his meals and his bed WITHOUT making love to her??? I sincerely hope and pray that there isnt a spiritual dimension to this whole thing. Even if there is anoda woman,man na man,sex no dey do dem. He will still do wit u once in a while so i dont think dats d case. Another woman cant make him not touch for all these yeArs - unless of course - something has occured on his head in d spiritual (get my drift?)
Anyway,dont stop praying. Prayers have been known to untie even d hardest knots - ur case is little compared with raising d dead and remember Jesus did dat!
Ladies,lets join hearts and hands and remember to say a word of prayer to God on Mensah's behalf. In d meantime babe,do as butterfly has said. Dont be shy,talk to people he respects lets hear what he says in his defence. Noone will fault u for speaking up but everyone will fault u if things go 'wronger' (pardon my grammer) than dis.
Ur son needs a sibling and u wont give him dat folding ur hands and watching ur husband get an erection dat isnt put to good use! God be with you dear