Mensah, do you mean 4days, 4weeks or 4months? 4YEARS! and you say apart from that everything else is alright. U must be kidding me, if your husband hasn't kissed or made love to you in four years and he still summons an erection, then, technically you people aren't married. Am very sure even the church will see this as sufficient ground for divorce. Don't get me wrong o, am not asking u to divorce him, just to highlight how serious your case is. Please it's not too sensitive to die in silence; if his mum is still around I suggest you take it up with her. Otherwise report him to your pastor (not chris okotie o) of your reverend father or even your marriage God parents.
If you husband hasn't kissed or touched you in 4years, he is CERTAINLY doing it with another woman, he is still tolerating because of the child you have otherwise you would've been replaced long ago by the lady. You don't believe he has ejaculated in 4yrs abi? or do you people do oral? Otherwise what took you this long to scream for help? My dear I pray your effort isn't coming too late. What did he even say it's his reason for it? How can he sleep with you on same bed for 1460days without accessing your honey pot? Or do you sleep in separate rooms. Abeg sit him down and demand for answers, you are his WIFE not the nanny or house-help! God save your marriage.
