•Your story, A tenant's dilemma is highly captivating. May your ink never dry. My reaction comes at the end of the gist. Remain blessed. Ben C. Nsukka. 070631213**
•My advice is this. Though, it's very painful, he should forgive his wife as the Bible advised. Nobody is perfect except God. Ogiri, from Nasarawa State. 081866236**
•I saw your story in the newspaper about your wife dating your landlord- don't marry that woman again. God will give you your true wife ok. 081005688**
•I had a similar experience from a lady. I foresee danger if you take her back. If marriage is for better for worse, she ought not have gone into such an act.
She is a devil. 080788862**
•I can't wait to buy Nation every Saturday because of your write ups. Just keep serving it fresh. Kudos. May your ink and inspiration never run dry.
Tope Olusa. 080370061**
•For Ekene to forgive in a situation like this is not easy but as a Christian, you have to try and let go of the past and start afresh for the sake of your daughter.
•Mshelia F- 081755835**
My name is Vivian from Port-Harcourt. I want to contribute on the issue going on between you and your wife. If I were in your shoes, I won't take back that woman as my wife because she is a materialistic wife and can't stay without money. So find another girl and get married. A girl that will love you because of who you are and not what you have. 080683492**
•If the story is ever true, you are certain to sign your death warrant for contemplating taking her as your wife again. Also, she has all the potentials of stripping you of that your new job. Beware! She will bewitch you gravely. Please be a principled man. Imo O from Uyo- 080644054**
•As I'm reading this story, my stomach pains me. You are a good person, that landlord would have signed off that property to me. 080330912**
•My brother, the affair went on for too long and as they say, when you are involved you will be the last person to hear. The affair made your neighbours angry that's why the woman told you. My advice is, let Vero go because history do repeat itself and like the Yorubas will say 'the eye you will grow old with should not pain you when you are young.' Monday from Warri 080381619**
•To hell with your so-called Vero. This wife of yours is capable of killing you and any other person. There are many faithful and trustworthy women searching for where to put their heads. Be reasonable and listen to your wise and loving mother's advice and mine too. I.M Shaba, Nasarawa State. 081704197**
•May God save us from bad women. A Yoruba adage says, 'If a woman is engaging in extramarital affairs, if she didn't kill herself, she will kill her husband. On this issue, it takes the wisdom of God. Well, my advice is that the man should forgive her for the sake of their daughter, but tell the little girl. 081427219**
•As for me, I will never advise you to take that kind of woman as a wife again. She's a bad wife. I don't even think she loves you because she would not have done that even if you didn't have money. Just get yourself a new wife to let her know that the success of a man comes after his disappointment. Barrister Henry 070398428**
•In my opinion, I will advise you to quit the relationship irrespective of the overtures from her family. If you take her back, what is the possibility that if things go bad with you she will not do worse? If your wife cannot understand and endure with you for better for worse, then she's not worth it. My candid advice to you is to quit the marriage and look for another woman. Ekong Nsima. 070354901**
•Which advice are you looking for? God used your situation to let you know the kind of person your wife is. I pray you don't die of hypertension this time around when she starts sleeping with your friend. Move on and get yourself a new wife. 070580060**
•My brother, you are lucky she did not poison you through food. That would have been her second plan because you are no longer a husband but a hindrance. 080330912**
•My brother, the Bible makes it clear that we can divorce our wife becos of unfaithfulness. Therefore move on with your life and your children since God has given you a new job. 081758943**
My name is Nwamadi Henry from Abuja. I agree that what the woman did was wrong but the truth of the matter is that the woman did it for both of them- if the wife was not having an affair with the landlord, he would have asked them to leave his house since they cannot afford to pay the house rent on time. This would have disorganised the man since he is jobless and he would not have been able to go to PH while his properties are outside under rain and sun… 081480251**
My suggestion is that you should follow your mother's decision and don't marry that woman again. She's not faithful becos if she was faithful, she would not have done that. Hafeez from Edo State. 081660132**
•Haba! That is too bad of her, she even disgraced women. Of course, if you don't accept her back, you are not at fault, my dear brother. Don't let anybody dictate to you. It pains you and it pains me also so go with what your mind tells you to do. But as for me o, am not teaching you what to do but I will never in my life accept her back because she can even kill you because of the greedy man. Please don't do what will bring you regret at the end ok. Think before you act. From Mary Oyinkansola Adeagbo, Ibadan. 070319533**
•Your true life story 'A tenant's dilemma' really touched me. It's a pity that Ekene suffered this much from his wife whom he loved so much. May I praise him for not committing murder during the show of shame. Ekene should look for another wife, with time, he will learn to love again. The Bible consents to divorce on the basis of adultery. Please forget about Vero. She's not your wife. When your child grows up, she will understand. Thanks. Ben C. Nsukka 070631213**
•Your own case is a pathetic one but not in isolation. Just assume you don't know that such a thing was going on between them. For God's sake and that of your daughter as you would not want to raise her under a broken home, forgive her and take her back but resettle far away from that environment and away from family members for sometime. Maybe time may heal the wound. Keep praying for your family. From Ayodele, Ibadan. 080609468**
