When it comes to hearing people ho dated for several years (some up to 10years) with both the male and female's family members as well as friends all hoping and looking forward for the couples to tie the knot only for them to come up with tales of "incompatibility" issues and stories.
Stories of ladies (and sometimes guys) committing suicide due to breakup of relationship that lasted many several years only got ended when marriage talks where in progress.
The question is, why do so many years of courtship end up with excuses of incompatibility issues just before marriage.
If this people could date for years at what point did they decide they can't marry based on compatibility issues.