1. Listen to what he has to say so that you will recognize what's on his heart. 2. Make an effort to be as cheerful as you were when you were engaged to be married. 3. Ignore his faults and focus on his strong points by taking note of them. 4. Compliment him for the way that he looks and the good things that he does like working hard for the family. 5. See him for who he is, not who you
