My case is a bad one. I met him when i was almost sixteen and he was 24 before my last year in secondary school. I just turned 21.
We were in a relationship for five years and 1 month. Things were not beautiful at first but he loved me and i loved him too at first. We had many obstacles because of age and my family but we stuck together.
At first I loved him but at some point I fell out of love and I started fooling around. It started with chatting then visiting boys until I finally slept with someone else. After I did that I broke up with him because I knew he would never forgive that. But the day after he came and reminded me of the love we shared and I accepted never telling him that it was because I slept with someone else that I ended it. Now 10 months after the truth is out and he is gone.
The worst part is that the issue brought up soo many lies I had told in the last 3 years that makes our relationship look like a joke.
I have hurt him so much because I know I was the world to him. He already bought a ring to propose to me before he realized what I had been doing from 2010 to 2011. Even though after the break up and make up I stopped fooling around with others I still lied to him sooo many times.
I know the extent of what I have done but I also know how remorseful I am. I know I would never hurt him again but how do I even get him to believe that and give me anoda chance?
I know if he takes me back he would never regret it but how does he forgive this heartbreak and take me back? Is it even possible to take back a cheating partner? Pls I need advice.
